三九養(yǎng)生堂記者 鄧肯·蓋伊 報道
精彩| “中??(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)都??(dou)在??(zai)社??(she)交??(jiao)降??(jiang)級??(ji)”的?(de)話?(hua)題??(ti)標??(biao)簽??(qian)??,著??(zhe)實?(shi)是??(shi)有??(you)些??(xie)夸??(kua)張??(zhang)了??(le)??。??然??(ran)而??(er)不?(bu)可??(ke)否??(fou)認??(ren)??,從??(cong)近??(jin)年??(nian)來??(lai)的??(de)大??(da)趨??(qu)勢??(shi)看??(kan)??,中?(zhong)年?(nian)人??(ren)的??(de)社?(she)交??(jiao)模??(mo)式??(shi)??,確??(que)乎??(hu)發(fā)??(fa)生??(sheng)了??(le)某??(mou)些??(xie)微??(wei)妙??(miao)而?(er)深??(shen)刻??(ke)的??(de)變??(bian)化??(hua)??。社?(she)交??(jiao)活??(huo)動??(dong)??,尤??(you)其??(qi)是??(shi)線?(xian)下??(xia)社??(she)交??(jiao)的??(de)萎??(wei)縮??(suo)??,幾??(ji)乎??(hu)以??(yi)一??(yi)種??(zhong)悄??(qiao)無??(wu)聲??(sheng)息??(xi)的??(de)方??(fang)式??(shi)持??(chi)續(xù)??(xu)進??(jin)行??(xing)??。這??(zhe)種?(zhong)“萎??(wei)縮??(suo)”??,不??(bu)是??(shi)那??(na)種??(zhong)戛??(jia)然??(ran)而??(er)止??(zhi)式??(shi)的??(de)“消??(xiao)隱??(yin)”與??(yu)“失??(shi)聯(lián)??(lian)”??,而??(er)是??(shi)漸??(jian)進?(jin)的??(de)、不??(bu)知??(zhi)不??(bu)覺??(jiao)的??(de)“斷??(duan)舍??(she)離??(li)”??。驀??(mo)然??(ran)回??(hui)首??(shou)??,聚?(ju)少??(shao)離??(li)多??(duo)的??(de)朋??(peng)友?(you)們??(men)??,索??(suo)性??(xing)越??(yue)走??(zou)越??(yue)遠??(yuan);久??(jiu)別??(bie)重??(zhong)逢?(feng)??,曾??(zeng)經(jīng)??(jing)的??(de)無??(wu)話??(hua)不?(bu)談??(tan)已??(yi)成??(cheng)相?(xiang)顧??(gu)無??(wu)言??(yan)??。越??(yue)發(fā)?(fa)稀??(xi)疏??(shu)凋?(diao)零??(ling)的?(de)人??(ren)際??(ji)網(wǎng)??(wang)??,化??(hua)作??(zuo)人??(ren)至??(zhi)中??(zhong)年??(nian)的??(de)又??(you)一??(yi)惆??(chou)悵??(chang)??。 在??(zai)中??(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)的?(de)世??(shi)界??(jie)里??(li)??,“社??(she)交??(jiao)降??(jiang)級??(ji)”源??(yuan)自??(zi)內(nèi)??(nei)外??(wai)兩??(liang)個??(ge)方?(fang)面??(mian)??。?一??(yi)個??(ge)是??(shi)“被??(bei)動??(dong)的?(de)結(jié)??(jie)果??(guo)”??,基??(ji)于??(yu)上??(shang)述??(shu)的??(de)種??(zhong)種??(zhong)原??(yuan)因??(yin);另??(ling)一??(yi)個??(ge)則??(ze)是??(shi)“主??(zhu)動??(dong)的??(de)選??(xuan)擇??(ze)”??,傳??(chuan)遞??(di)了??(le)中??(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)整??(zheng)理??(li)人??(ren)際??(ji)關??(guan)系??(xi)減??(jian)少??(shao)無??(wu)效??(xiao)社??(she)交??(jiao)的??(de)努?(nu)力??(li)??。就??(jiu)此??(ci)而??(er)言??(yan)??,“社?(she)交??(jiao)降??(jiang)級??(ji)”??,又??(you)何??(he)嘗??(chang)不??(bu)是??(shi)與??(yu)自?(zi)我??(wo)的??(de)和??(he)解??(jie)??,是??(shi)一??(yi)次?(ci)適?(shi)時??(shi)的??(de)減?(jian)負??(fu)呢??(ne)???社??(she)交??(jiao)降??(jiang)級??(ji)??,疏??(shu)遠??(yuan)的??(de)是??(shi)“第??(di)二??(er)圈??(quan)層??(ceng)”“第??(di)三??(san)圈??(quan)層??(ceng)”的??(de)萍??(ping)水??(shui)之??(zhi)交??(jiao)??,去?(qu)掉?(diao)的?(de)是??(shi)酒?(jiu)局??(ju)、飯??(fan)局??(ju)的??(de)逢?(feng)場??(chang)作??(zuo)戲??(xi)??,省??(sheng)去??(qu)的??(de)是?(shi)裝??(zhuang)腔??(qiang)作?(zuo)勢??(shi)、講??(jiang)排??(pai)場??(chang)、走??(zou)過?(guo)場??(chang)的??(de)不??(bu)堪??(kan)重??(zhong)負??(fu)——社??(she)交??(jiao)降??(jiang)級??(ji)不??(bu)是??(shi)離??(li)群??(qun)索??(suo)居??(ju)??,而??(er)是??(shi)一??(yi)種??(zhong)隨??(sui)心??(xin)隨??(sui)性??(xing)的??(de)“輕??(qing)質(zhì)??(zhi)社??(she)交?(jiao)”??。
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